Are You A Single Lady? Check this Out

To all the single babes out there:

Have you been single all your life, or you just got single again because you got heartbroken or you broke someone’s heart or you have been in and out of relationships and lo! you are single again, or the dating thing isn’t just your thing…..then please take this advice.

Enjoy it (being single) while it last! Get up from bed (if you are still in one!), or get out of that mood! You need to just get out there and live! Who says you need a man to make you feel good or make you feel complete? Mind you, for a marriage to work, you need to be whole firstly. Get yourself together, give yourself a treat! Save up for that romantic trip to Dubai or somewhere you could think of! Go and enjoy every bit of it so that when you eventually come with your hubby later, you’ll be able to show him round with all pride!

Some of you are just too occupied being in and out of relationships, you hardly even know yourself!

Your life has been all wrapped up with one guy that you almost don’t even have a life of your own anymore! Being single is a phase I encourage every young lady not yet married to go through. It’s a place of discovery, it’s a place of accomplishment. It’s not a plague, or a curse. Believe me, some of us wished we were single a little longer!
For some, you just need to use this period to learn a skill or perfect a talent! Believe me, I don’t think the Prov 31 woman learnt all she was able to do in her husband’s house. How now? Where is the time? Have u forgotten she had businesses to attend to, servants to give assignments to and a family to care for! Go learn ballet dance, learn how to drive, how to swim, how to cook, bake, how to sow, learn the art of interior decorating (either for your consumption/or professionally), learn how to dress, how to apply makeup…just learn something add value to yourself while you are waiting for Mr Right.

For some who have the money, check yourself into a lovely hotel all by yourself and enjoy a wonderful weekend. Pray, study, watch movies, go swimming, go play tennis and rest!

Some of you just need to REST!
Rest from work, from friends, rest from family and just be by yourself and enjoy it! Feel good shopping for yourself and be proud of yourself because you deserve it. If you don’t
have cash ready, don’t be ashamed, go window shopping. At least you are still shopping!
Feel good about yourself. Be hopeful of your tomorrow. Walk into that exquisite mall/shop heads up feeling like a queen that you are,admire those lovely shoes, bags, hair extensions and dresses that presently your 3months salary put together cannot buy! Please dont pity yourself or curse the shop owner. Rather, smile and say to yourself: ‘Someday soon, I’ll own this place!’ So, my dear single lady, enjoy this phase of life and live it to the fullest!

Have a great day being single! Good luck